3 steps to get what you want

November 26, 2013

dressnyWe all want things. You probably have a pretty clear list of what that is. More money, more love, more freedom, more friends, more clients, more time, more energy (more dresses 😉 Does any of that resonate?

So how can you ensure that you get what you want? I would suggest the next 3 steps:

1. Get clear on what it is that you want

Are you crystal clear on what you want? What does ‘more freedom’ mean to you? The trick is to get clear especially on how you want to feel, and not get too caught up in the details. So I invite you to take a moment and decide what it is you want to create in your life or in your business. You can even make a mood board to capture the feeling, if that is something you like doing. Getting clarity on what you want is a really big step towards manifesting it. I love this quote that sums it up:

“Once you make a decision, the universe conspires to make it happen.”
Ralph Waldo Emerson

2. Ask for it

We tend to think it’s pretty obvious what we want. But the truth is we often assume a lot of things. If you really want it, simply ask for it! Then you are not only sure that your family, friends or clients know what you want, so they can think of you when they come across it or when they feel like supporting you. But you also set a clear intention to the Universe, asking them for their assistance in bringing it to you. Or in the words of Esther Hicks:

“Ask and it is given”

3. Release and let it come to you

Often the most difficult part is (once you have asked for something, when you have set the intention) to let go of how it will come to you. Most of us (I’m still practicing this too 😉 want to have some control over the process. If not in the ‘how’ then at least in the ‘when’. And by doing so we limit the possibilities of the Universe to co-create with us. If you say you want more money and you insist it needs to be through winning the lottery, that eliminates a lot of other options. The same goes for a new relationship or a change in your business.

We also tend to want to know the status “is it almost there yet?”. That’s the same as digging up an acorn everyday to see if it has already sprouted. That’s only slowing down, if not hampering, the process. So let go, do something else. You will know when it has arrived or when you are being asked to take a step as part of the process.

Would you like more clarity on what it is you really want or need? Or support in manifesting it?

Then I invite you to apply for a free Clarity Session with me! In this session we will get clear at what’s going on for you, where you would like to be in your life and in your business and how I can support you to get there with one of my programs.

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