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No Man's Land: What to do when you're between phases

October 14, 2025

Last week I described that something was feeling off. Nothing felt right—like I didn’t fit in my own skin. And I gave myself permission to just be—without needing to fix anything. I often feel like this when I’m in transition. When things are shifting or changing or when I’m transforming into a new level o…

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When nothing feels right: your permission to just be

October 7, 2025

Sometimes nothing feels right. There isn’t necessarily anything specifically wrong either, but you feel like you don’t fit in your own skin. That’s how I’m feeling right now. I can’t yet place a finger on what’s off—and I don’t need to. All that’s required right now is giving myself space to be. …

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5 reasons why standing stil matters (especially when too busy)

September 28, 2025

In this world where we’re always busy and running towards the next thing—checking things off our to-do list—we need to remember to take a moment to stand still. To take in the world. To enjoy where we’re at, what we’re doing and who we are with. I know, when you're super busy, pausing may feel like the las…

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How to shift from worry to appreciation: the future gratitude method

September 23, 2025

Summer has just officially given way to fall and I think we’re all hoping for an Indian summer.  At least I am. ;) The change of seasons made me pause and reflect on the past few months. I am so grateful for everything that transpired this summer. Shift your focus You may have heard me mention the importance of…

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What authenticity really means (and why it's so hard)

September 16, 2025

Being ourselves isn’t always easy. It’s something we want most and often find hard to embrace. Because we’re afraid of what others might think. I’m often afraid of being too much. Too intense or laughing too loud. That last bit I happily blame on my mother. She’s extremely sensitive to sound and I apparent…

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7 ways my mentoring approach creates real breakthroughs

September 9, 2025

Recently someone asked me what makes me different. Why she should work with me and not someone else. Great question! I figured more people might be wondering the same so that’s why I’m sharing this with you today. Here are seven reasons why clients—from Olympic athletes to corporate leaders to sensitive creati…

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The 5-min Happiness Test that reveals what's draining you

September 2, 2025

I believe life is meant to be enjoyed. But if we’re not careful we’re so busy with our to-do list and responsibilities that days and weeks string together. Before we know it, we’re busier doing things than enjoying them. That’s why I thought a Happiness Reality Check might be in order. To get clear on how ha…

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Stop revisiting your past—create your future instead

August 26, 2025

We’re creatures of habit. And once something has become routine it becomes hard to break out of that pattern. That’s why we need to be careful what we feed with our attention. I don’t believe in endlessly revisiting your childhood trauma, accidental failures and other disappointments for that reason. What you …

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Your mid-year reset: 5 essential focus areas to make the most of this year

August 19, 2025

It's the middle of the summer and this always feels like a good time to reflect on the year so far. What have you done in your personal and professional life? What have you experienced? What went well? What didn't go the way you had hoped? What were some unexpected (hopefully happy) surprises along the way? And most…

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Iris at Dr Joe Dispenza retreat

Why 95% of your life is sleepwalking (and how to finally wake up)

August 12, 2025

This is my third and final share from my transformative 7-day Advanced retreat with Dr Joe Dispenza. (Catch up on parts one and two here). We’re creatures of habit. Most of our days unfold along the same predictable routines. You get up, do your morning rituals to get ready for the day and off you go, likely takin…

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