This week, I experienced something life-changing that forced me to confront deep pain I was still carrying. I thought I’d healed from a family trauma six years ago, but something was still lurking underneath. It surfaced during a leadership meeting when I felt rejected by my team over my decision to leave. I created a false reality where all my work meant nothing. I kept wondering why I was so hurt by my own choice.
Then it hit me—I wasn’t just upset about work, but experiencing something deeper. My mind transported me back to being orphaned by my family six years ago. I had been unknowingly seeking in my workmates the belonging I lost when my family rejected me. This revelation was a turning point. I suddenly understood the source of many past hurts and poor decisions. That understanding was overwhelming but also a relief—finally seeing where the hurt came from and knowing how to deal with it.
But I wasn’t sure how to move forward with this newfound clarity, so I reached out to Iris, who I’ve been working with for a while now, to talk through this deep discovery. What she did in that session was nothing short of incredible. Without giving away all her secrets, Iris helped me uncover the source of that “ugly bugger” hiding inside, causing havoc in my life. She guided me in letting go of that energy, and within an hour, I felt a complete shift. It was a bright, uplifting change that had an immediate effect on my life. The results were almost unbelievable—an unexpected raise, a dream job opportunity, and an influx of projects I had been chasing for months.
I’ve heard Iris say many times, “When your energy shifts, everything changes.” I didn’t fully understand what that meant until I experienced it myself. The power of mindset, of recognizing and releasing what’s been holding you back, is real. I now see the correlation between shifting my energy and unlocking opportunities in life. After working with Iris, I learned that you don’t have to push through. You can take action, face your hurt, and make room for the growth that’s waiting for you.